yeah.. FINALLY all my projects are over...
i can have a nice sleep and do all the stuff that i missed out during my project period.
woohoo....... and my mask is waiting for me.. haha

i went to tighten my braces last week. and i have no idea why it is so tight compared to the previous time. usually after tightening, i can either use the side teeth or the few front teeth to bite my food... but this time, i can use neither of them... the pain is so "suan" that i rather not talk and eat. so i just drank milo or soup for lunch/ dinner... and keep feeling hungry thoughout the day. haiz... its like torturing myself. my mum seem rather worry and upset seeing what i am going through so she kept asking what i wanna eat so that she can cook for me. sweet rite??
yepyep.
oh well... just gotton endure with it.
as the saying goes "ai mei bu yao ming"
hahaha.... i can "ren"... i can!!!


anyway, i called the traffic police today regarding the conversion of my M'sia driving license. But i was being put to an answering machine. And i really hate answering machine. it is really frustrating. you gotton listen to a pre-record human voice speaking to u... and u have to follow exactly what she says just to get your things done.
please press 1. For enquires please press 5. blablabla....
its like u gotton listen to all the options before u can decide on which number to press. damn waste of time.
yea..maybe for the organisation, they wanna narrow down the enquires from customer by directly them to different department or call centre. But tell me, which customer likes to "talk" to an automated answering machine...
hrmmpp... whatever... i am just grumpy...


Recently i have frenze who are in the dilemma of breaking up... or they are chilling off.
and majority of them are in a long term relationship. hmm... 3 to 4 years??
they have quarrels, disagreement, past lies haunting them or "the feeling has fade away"

Of course, its normal for couples to have arguement. But what exactly lie underneath these predicament?

When a couple is in a long term relationship, they tend to expect their partner to do/react what they should be doing. because of the years being together, the level of understanding should be there. But there will sure be times like "i tot u know i dunn like", "why u always need me to repeat?"

Moments when feeling fade but you know you will still love her/him. How are u going to struggle all by yourself and get the feeling back? How are u going to make things work out?
Its a headache rite? ya.. it is...

How about taking your partner for granted? will u do that without realizing it cuz she/he treats u like queen/king?
Or you cant bear to break up cuz you are so used to the life with him? seriously, u have to draw a clear line between loving the person and being used to the person in your life. loving her will make u feel that there is a need to have her in your life. but being used to the person without love, carry no value in continuing the relationship.

Anyway do u encounter people who ask if u are attached then carry on asking "how long have you two being together?" haha.. i guess we do lah. and usually their reply is: "huh! 4 years? so long. Can get married already lah!" blabla.... haha.. maybe they just casually commented smth like tt.. but u have to think whether is he the one for you, is the understanding between u two deep enough to carry on to the next level rather than concluding everything just because of the years being together.

somehow i feel that number of years being together are just numbers for the sake of memory. what's important is the chemistry between a couple, the love and understanding that will sustain a relationship. The forgiving and forget to ease the tension with one another.

i wouldnt say that i am good at handling it cuz i am constantly learning from my mistake and from my bf.
oh well... everyone do learn as they grow up rite... :D

cheerio!!!!!! stay happy people!!!!